In a wide ranging, candid interview with America’s most decorated war hero, General David Petraeus, we discussed the unfathomable pressures he faced in Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Oval Office. (YouTube video at bottom)
Whether you run a multinational or a startup in your parent’s garage, the leadership lessons he imparts from the battlefield are all too relevant.
1. For the times you disagree with the President
“In the Oval Office with President Obama discussing my assignment in Afghanistan, I felt it was very important for him to know who he was getting.”
“Mr. President, you should understand that I will provide my best professional military advice based on the facts on the ground and the mission you’ve given us and informed by the issues with which you have to deal uniquely. I’ll be aware of those, but my advice will be determined by facts on the ground. If those facts are unchanged, so my advice, too, will be unchanged.”
“That was an interesting, tense moment.”
If carefully thought out principles guide your thinking at all times and you make that clear up front, your ideas will get serious consideration even when they differ from your colleagues or your boss. In the years after, your decision based on facts and moral courage will stand you in good stead while others may wish they had listened.
2. When every decision is life threatening
“To be truly effective under these circumstances, everyone should take the time to develop a philosophy of strategic leadership, in particular of how to get the big ideas, then how to communicate them effectively to the breadth and depth of the organization, and closely oversee their implementation.”
“The first thing I would say about the success in a region, I’d like to think that I had devoted a great deal of study to understanding the human terrain in Iraq.”
“Then, spend a great deal of time getting the big ideas right. So be aware that your first thoughts may need to be refined, revised, shot and left by the side of the road, and you may have to do it all over again and again and again.”
“It also takes a great, great team, and everybody embracing the idea. Finally, there’s a little bit of the stubborn Dutchman in me, taking after my old Dutch sea captain father. It takes a high degree of determination.”
Leadership when viewed from close up has ebbs and flows. This is nothing more than the need to constantly react as shifting circumstances demand. The best leaders, Like General Petraeus, know that finding ways to sustain their focus and commitment in the face of adversity is key to achieving great things, including victories on the battlefield.
3. No one will know what you’re going through
“Part of the problem, and this was true in Iraq but it’s also true in the C suite — you deal with intractable problems day in, day out, and you have few peers that really understand your pressures.”
“I can recall, after a tough, tough stretch things were finally starting to turn, but there were political battles, the prime minister had issues, the members of the Parliament were causing all sorts of distractions. There was a moment when I just called up the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, and said: ‘Hey, Admiral. I just want you to know this is not the easiest thing in the world.’ I just felt that somebody needs to know. That’s the final challenge, as they say, that’s the loneliness of command.”
A leader must learn to reach out across, up and down the organization, help colleagues to understand the challenges, and by doing so, find a sense of purpose, balance, and a way forward together.
For the complete interview, click on the image below: